I’m blogging again. Blogging is cool.

I’ve been blogging on social media for years. Recently I’ve been using Google+ first, and then automatically distributing those links to Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr.

But I’ve increasingly become dissatisfied with that arrangement. Those platforms are owned by other people – Google, Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr. Those companies control the format of my posts, and who gets to comment on them. Those companies can make changes to their service, or even shut down entirely, and there’s nothing I can do about it.

All of that was something I was willing to live with for the trade-off of connecting with other people. But in recent months, the kinds of connections I get through those services have been unsatisfying. I’m getting more comments from jerks and other unpleasant randos, and getting tired of blocking them.

So now I’m posting my links and kibitzing here. Because I own this site, I have greater control over the platform than I do over what happens on social media.

A blog is a home. Social media is couch-surfing.

Does this mean I’m leaving social media?

Not at all. I’ll continue sharing my posts from here to Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr, and watching discussions there as before. Indeed, I’m looking for better ways to share on those platforms without taking up a lot of my time. Because this thing I do here is just a hobby.

I did this experiment once before, for five months in 2014, and ended up going back to social media. But now it’s different. At that time I was still concerned with increasing the numbers of people following me on social media – the size of my communities there. I’m less concerned now. My community numbers have been flat recently on all the services I use, and I don’t mind it. The noise from jerks and unpleasant randos is loud enough to make my social media experience less pleasant. More followers = more noise.

Also, social platforms like Twitter, Facebook, and Google+ are starting to become public squares. We’ve always talked about them that way, but I’m seeing that myself now and it’s a mixed blessing. We’re not individuals there, we’re just part of the group. I’ve had people commenting on my posts and refer to me in the third person – not even by name, just as “OP” (for “original poster” – a shorthand I first saw on Reddit). They start calling each other names. When I ask them to be civil with each other, they want to know who the hell I am to tell them what to do. I don’t bother to ask anymore. I just block them when they get too annoying. It’s tedious. It makes social media too much like work.

By moving off of social media to a blog platform, I make it harder for people to find and read my posts. Not a lot, just a tiny bit. And I like it that way. I’m hoping that tiny little speed bump will improve the quality of conversation. Anybody willing to make that tiny bit of effort to get here is welcome. But they have to make that tiny little bit of effort.

If my follower numbers grow by a little or a lot, I’ll be happy about that. But if they don’t, I’m fine with that too. I don’t plan to take any special steps to grow my follower numbers – no ads or search engine optimization or suchlike shenanigans. I want people to be able to find me easily if that’s what they want, and if they’re not interested, that’s fine too. 1 

Also: I recently read a blog post by a friend who’s taking a Facebook break. She values her privacy so I won’t link to it. But she, like me, is an introvert. And like me she finds social media connections to be a substitute for real life connections. She was finding going on Facebook often made her feel bad. I can relate.

I hope that by taking this baby step back from social media, I can understand better the extent to which I value personal connections, and how much I need of them, and to what extent I’m happy to be my introverted self. 2

If you’re interested in continuing to read my links and posts, thank you! Just keep on following me on social media, as you were, and click over here to read anything you find interesting. Or don’t – that’s OK too. Or you bookmark this site and come back regularly. Or subscribe to the RSS feed.

Also, you can get a daily email newsletter of my posts. I think the newsletter option is nifty and I’m surprised more people don’t take advantage of it. Perhaps I haven’t spread the word enough?

By the way, my blogging here might be temporary. I get infatuated with one technology or another and then lose interest rapidly and move on, much to the annoyance of a few friends who look to me as a technology bellwether.

On the other hand, I do stay with some things. I’ve been an online enthusiast for 27 years, longer than the Internet has been popular with the general public. I’ve been in the Appleverse for nine years now and am still satisfied. And I’ve been blogging like I do here for about nine years as well. So don’t be surprised if this blog is still up and running in some form 10 years from now, and don’t be surprised if I give it up in a few months either.

I do expect that if I stick with this for years I won’t always be on WordPress. But I do think whatever platform I’m using, I’ll continue blogging, continue doing it here at this URL, and hopefully all the archives will be in the same place too.

  1. Even friends and family should feel no obligation to connect with me online. This is my peculiar hobby that I’m happy to share with anyone, but have no interest in inflicting on people unwillingly. ↩︎
  2. “Introvert” has become such an overused word on the Internet. It makes me feel like an annoying hipster to proclaim myself to be one. On the other hand, maybe I’m missing out on an opportunity to ride the hype. I could start introvert clubs! Host an introvert conference! Just send me money and stay home and do whatever you want without interacting with other people. ↩︎

9 thoughts on “I’m blogging again. Blogging is cool.

    1. Mitch Wagner

      It’s do-able for free on wordpress.com. I’m paying about $250/yr because I want to be able to nerd out.

    2. Ken Estes

      The other cost is a slightly more involved User Experience.

      Social Media has a pretty transparent UX. There’s a lot of invisible overhead that the companies deal with, and they don’t really provide the opportunity to make large technical errors. When you use WordPress you have to be more “mindful.”

      The upside is that unlike Facebook, WordPress can make your content more accessible and searchable. Which means that popular articles CAN have a longer shelf life.

    3. Mitch Wagner

      Ken Estes Control is one reason I’m making the change. I I want to be able to control the layout. I don’t want the service adding new features that make it harder for me to use.

      Nerding out and fiddling is another reason. More dials and knobs to twiddle pleasurably on a WordPress blog.

    4. Mitch Wagner

      Ken Estes While this choice will make it harder for folks to find me, they’ll stick around longer when they do. No worries about the service changing my page rank and hiding my posts, or folding entirely.

      Search rank and article shelf life is of very little concern to me. I’ve had my fill of popularity among strangers on social media — and remember, I get plenty of it at work.

    5. Ken Estes

      I’m all for it. I’m just saying there’s a different cost that doesn’t deal with money.

  1. Jeramy Phillips

    1. The link that you have for your RSS feed is incorrect, it should be http://mitchwagner.com/feed/

    2. Please make sure there is some sort of synopsys on the social media side of the links. People that follow you via those methods should at least see some sort description of what you are linking them to. I know I have skipped over a number of your recent links (via Google+) to this blog simply because I was a) too lazy to follow to it or b) I didn’t have any idea what you were linking to and why I should follow it.

    3. Because I find you an interesting person, I will be adding your RSS feed to my reader. The good thing is I will always still be seeing what your thoughts are. The bad thing, for me at least, is that there is an additional hoop to jump through to comment or interact with a post. I know this is intentional in your case to stem the ass-hats.

    1. Mitch Wagner Post author

      Thanks, Jeramy! Glad you’ve decided to come along for the ride.

      I wrote this post a while ago and filed it as a draft. Explains why the RSS feed is incorrect — I’ve made some changes under the hood since I wrote that draft.

      In other news: It’s been my goal since I came to WordPress to be able to easily also publish posts to social media in their native format. I respect your dislike of having to click back here for no good reason, particularly when the item I’ve posted is just a link to something else — it’s an extra link and that short wait for a page to load.

      I think I have found a WordPress extension that does just that – SNAP from NextScripts. It’s primarily designed to publish blog posts, but it can also be configured to turn WordPress essentially into a publishing platform for multiple social media. Which is what I want (and would solve your problem too).


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