Dan Savage Says Cheating Happens. And That’s OK. – Death, Sex & Money podcast.
Good podcast, but not a great headline. Savage doesn’t say cheating is ok. He says you should decide with your partner what your commitment will be regarding other sexual partners, and then honor that commitment.
He also says that most monogamous marriages experience cheating at least once, and that’s not OK. It’s WRONG WRONG WRONG. But if you love each other, the marriage can survive it and do OK afterward.
Savage describes his own marriage as “monogamish.”